I came across the fable about the Goose and the Horse:

A Goose, who was plucking grass upon a common, thought herself affronted by a Horse who fed near her, and in hissing accents thus addressed him. “I am certainly a more noble and perfect animal than you, for the whole range and extent of your faculties is confined to one element. I can walk upon the ground as well as you; I have besides wings, with which I can raise myself in the air; and when I please, I can sport in ponds and lakes, and refresh myself in the cool waters: I enjoy the different powers of a bird, a fish, and a quadruped. “The Horse, snorting somewhat disdainfully, replied,”It is true you inhabit three elements, but you make no very distinguished figure in any one of them. You fly, indeed; but your flight is so heavy and clumsy, that you have no right to put yourself on a level with the lark or the swallow. You can swim on the surface of the waters, but you cannot live in them as fishes do; you cannot find your food in that element, nor glide smoothly along the bottom of the waves. And when you walk, or rather waddle, upon the ground, with your broad feet and your long neck stretched out, hissing at every one who passes by, you bring upon yourself the derision of all beholders. I confess that I am only formed to move upon the ground; but how graceful is my make! How well turned my limbs! How highly finished my whole body! How great my strength! How astonishing my speed! I had far rather be confined to one element, and be admired in that, than be a Goose in all.”

It was just what I needed because I have been praying for will power against so many distractions lately. Since I am such a “yes person” I want to say yes to everything I’d be good at. And it’s even a little flattering to be bombarded with new and exciting opportunities every day. But what I actually need to get good at is saying “NO”.

It’s hard at first because you feel like you’re letting someone down but it’s actually better for you and that person in the end if you will just say no. And remember, “no” is a full sentence. You don’t have to explain yourself. (Yes, for those of you who know me, I’m the pot calling the kettle black right now because I tend to over-explain!) But it’s true, you will be better off concentrating on the ONE goal ahead of you, the thing you can master, rather than trying to be a jack of all trades.

You cannot hit two targets with one arrow. Stay focused!

Peace.